I feel pathetic!
Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2022 5:19 am
Hi everyone, I just want to vent out.
I'm in my mid-30s and want to settle down, but I can't stay in a relationship. My schedule is usually hectic, and I never have time to spend with my partner, which is why they always break up with me. I genuinely want to settle down, but my prior experiences have taught me that we must be practical and save for our future. This time, I understood that we should not take our partner's effort to create time for us for granted. Because I'm usually busy and didn't recognize the mistakes previously, it's always me who can't make up for a missed date. As I become older, I realize the mistakes I made and desire to alter myself for the best. I don't want to go home, sleep, or eat by myself. I'd like to start a family. I enviously watch my friends get married, and they keep asking when it will be my turn. I'm asking the same thing and want to be as happy as they are. However, given my present workload, my friends frequently joke me that if I want to have a family, I should retire. I know it was a joke, but I was thinking the same thing deep down. Is it feasible for me to start a family while being a workaholic?
I'm in my mid-30s and want to settle down, but I can't stay in a relationship. My schedule is usually hectic, and I never have time to spend with my partner, which is why they always break up with me. I genuinely want to settle down, but my prior experiences have taught me that we must be practical and save for our future. This time, I understood that we should not take our partner's effort to create time for us for granted. Because I'm usually busy and didn't recognize the mistakes previously, it's always me who can't make up for a missed date. As I become older, I realize the mistakes I made and desire to alter myself for the best. I don't want to go home, sleep, or eat by myself. I'd like to start a family. I enviously watch my friends get married, and they keep asking when it will be my turn. I'm asking the same thing and want to be as happy as they are. However, given my present workload, my friends frequently joke me that if I want to have a family, I should retire. I know it was a joke, but I was thinking the same thing deep down. Is it feasible for me to start a family while being a workaholic?